Monthly Archives: December 2011

Reflections of a Homeschool Pioneer

For years I have been introduced as a pioneer in the Homeschooling Movement.

Pioneer doesn’t necessarily mean “first”. It just means before something becomes accepted. Others had gone before me, and they became my inspiration.

Recently, I had a picture in my mind’s eye: I was sitting among a group of newby homeschooling families who had asked this ‘Ole Timer’ to share some advice from my almost 30 years’ involvement in homeschooling.

So, I will. As the New Year begins, I will be sharing perspectives I believe every new (or somewhat new) homeschooler should consider. Some of what I share will come from failure; others will come from valuable insights the Lord has given me throughout the years.

I will even attempt to arrange these thoughts in a hierarchy of importance.

I also want to ask anyone who has finished his or her homeschooling journey to add your own insights. Not just homeschooling parents, but homeschool graduates. What are the 1 or 2 things you want to say to other homeschoolers? Write them in the Comments box, below, and we will see what help we can offer to those who have heard God tell them to “Walk this way…”

Don’t Get Math? A Real Dilemma (or Not)?

Just as some children have Dyslexia (difficulty with the written symbols of letters and words), some children have difficulty with its sister condition, Dyscalculia.

An article in this week’s Jerusalem Post discusses how Dyscalculia can be easily diagnosed by determining how well a child as young as age 3 is able to estimate. “The National Institutes of Health showed that the innate capacity to estimate is impaired in children who have a math learning disability.”

For example, if shown 8 dots, can the child tell you if the number is closer to 10 or to 5? Can the child determine which number is greater or lesser than the other?

The article featured an individual who had taken intermediate algebra six times before a teacher finally stumbled on a way to explain formulas so the student could understand. It seems that students with Dyscalculia are often able to grasp complex mathematical concepts, but choke at the most basic tasks of addition and multiplication.

Although my ADD is greater than my Dyscalculia (I understand that 8 is greater than 5), I have always had difficulty figuring how much to tip or which line is moving faster in a store. At first, I had tremendous difficulty with Algebra until one day the thought struck me that Algebra was, basically, a game—each problem a mystery to be solved. I have always loved games; so, once I entered the “game” called Algebra, Algebra became one of my favorite pastimes. If I had not made this discovery, I might have become a statistic like what Sylvan Learning Center recently discovered: “…about 1/3 of students surveyed would sacrifice a month of fun activities if they could never have to do algebra again….”

As an educator, my greatest concern is the long-term damage to an individual’s self-worth caused by the continual comparison between students that is so endemic in an institutional educational setting (i.e. public and private schools). Studies show that Dyscalculia is in no way related to IQ; that people with Dyscalculia are often highly intelligent, but suffer from low self-esteem due to  having been compared with others over many years.

A few years ago I read that 85% of 2nd graders (read that again: second graders!) consider themselves failures. I am forced to repeat this: By the time a child is in 2nd grade he or she is most likely to consider himself/herself an academic failure. Why? Again, comparison.

John Gatto (former New York State Teacher of the Year) states that public schooling is, basically, a “competitive sport” at which only a few can win and most lose.

At the risk of sounding like a broken record, one of the main reasons we must raise our own children (including providing for their education) is that we are the only ones capable of treating them as individuals. In our homes, each child is not compared to any other. Each is allowed to be the individual he or she really is. By contrast, it is virtually impossible for an institutional setting to individualize education. No one ever asks, “How much math is enough for this person?” Or, “What kind of math does that person really need to succeed in life?” Or, “Is there a different way to present math to my child so he ‘gets’ it?”

Does your child “Get Math”? Many of my former blogs deal with this topic.

I always appreciate your comments and feedback to anything I write…


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John Holt, long-time educator and author, now deceased, had this to say about institutional schooling:

“Education… now seems to me perhaps the most authoritarian and dangerous of all the social inventions of mankind. It is the deepest foundation of the modern slave state, in which most people feel themselves to be nothing but producers, consumers, spectators, and fans, driven more and more, in all parts of their lives, by greed, envy, and fear. My concern is not to improve ‘education’ but to do away with it, to end the ugly and antihuman business of people-shaping and to allow and help people to shape themselves.”

As homeschooling parents, the only thing we shape in the lives of our children is their character. We do not educate to shape them; we educate as we discover them. Of course, this assumes there is already something in each child to be discovered.

Modern education shapes children in the mold of employability, ignoring what God has already put within the child. Homeschooling should release what God has put within the child for His glory and the benefit of whatever/whomever God determines. Only then can an individual be fully alive.